Monday, September 29, 2025

Miss Information's Adventures in Disability: The Second Thing

 Second Thing:  (see previous post for the First Thing)

What fresh hell is this?
                   Dorothy Parker

Miss Information is terrified of public washrooms. She's had a couple of traumatic experiences. Toilet too low? Shoes without good grippy soles? An unexpected wet floor? She might as well just send change of address cards because she now lives in this washroom. 

She also needs the grab bar on the right because her left hand is only good for displaying jewelry. One mall that Miss Information visits regularly has 1000 toilets and exactly 1 with the right configuration.

So once she finds one that works she's loyal. Like the one at a local coffee shop. She'd met friends there and then they were going to shop up the street. Miss Information had no experience with the washrooms "up the street" so she better go now, right? She tells her friends she'll meet them and goes to the washroom area.

The coffee shop has 2 toilets. Miss Information's lucky bathroom is occupied. The other one has the grab bar on the left. Also the toilet itself looks clogged. She backs out and now there's another woman waiting. 

Miss Information talks to her and explains the situation--about the clog, not the grab bar. Suddenly the the other washroom is vacated. Miss Information announces she's using it. The other woman says she really needs to pee and yeah, Miss Information says she'll be quick which is an outright lie. All the tranferring out of and into the wheelchair takes longer. The woman says ok. She'll just pee in the clogged one. Ew. 

Things go pretty well for Miss Information until she goes to flush.

It has one of those flusher things with a long metal handle you push or pull. Miss Information remembers them from kindergarten. But she's done this before so what could go wrong? 

What went wrong: she pushed to flush and when the handle went back up it pinched the skin on her pinkie finger. It really hurt and there was a lot of blood. She washed it, wrapped it up and went up the street to meet her friends no doubt leaving a trail of blood in her wake.

When she got back home she unwrapped her finger and took a good look. No cut. The toilet flusher had just ripped an entire section of skin off. No wonder it hurt so much. She went to the residence's nurse for professional bandaging. For some reason the medical office had no antiseptic but she cleaned and bandaged the injury. 

But hey! Miss Information rebandaged it herself--something of a miracle for a woman with only 3 working fingers to put a bandage on the fourth.

Miss Infirmation's Adventures in Disability: The First Thing.

Miss Information is doing ok, although this post may lead readers to suspect otherwise.

First Thing: 

Hell is other people.
                    John-Paul Sartre

Miss Information often visits a local grocery store because they sell a very delicious sundried tomato pesto which is keeping her alive these days. She HATES the store entrance. It has these retractable bars you have to push on to enter. This is fine for ambulatory folks but Miss Information has trouble. Her wheelchair has to be perfectly positioned to go in and even then the bar sometimes knocks her controller joystick out of place making it hard to steer.

So that happened. Right next to the entrance there was a big display table with giant white pumpkins. Miss Information noticed how cool they were as she accidentally ploughed into the table knocking one of the giant pumpkins into her lap and getting her armrest stuck under the table. 

(At this point Miss Information would like to directly address her wonderful OT Amy and OTA Deanna who taught her how to use her powerchair: Yes, Miss Information was going too fast and should have taken her hand off the accellerator to regroup. No, there was no reason to panic. Yes, she did see the pumpkin display and drove into it anyway even though she had hours of training on avoiding obstacles like this. Also hi.)

First things first: Miss Information was reorganizing the display so she could put the giant pumpkin back when another customer appeared. He wanted to help he said and took the giant pumpkin and put it on the display. 

Miss Information thanks him and admits that she was driving badly.

Helpful man decides to share his thoughts (bad choice, dude): Yeah you know I've had two strokes and ending up in one of those things is my worst nightmare!

Miss Information did not respond. She didn't think fast enough to tell him that this "thing" was the reason she could go to stores (and cause havoc). Without this "thing" she'd be stuck in a bed or staring out the window. This "thing" had improved her life in so many ways and she's so grateful that this technology exists. Really more of a dream than a nightmare.

She vows to enter the store using the self checkout from now on.